Creating A Container
Creating and Setting Up Your Space
Turning Your Massage Table Into A Bondage Bed
Learn a variety of touch skills to give your lover an intimate massage that will profoundly delight him or her, as well as specific strokes for various parts of the front and back part of your lover’s body.
Female Genital Massage Videos
Male Genital Massage Videos
Anal Massage Videos
Breast Massage Videos
Advanced Nipple Play
Advanced Anal Play (Including The Anal Hook)
Creative Ways To Use Lotion And Oil
How To Play With Erogenous Zones
Are you getting a little bored with the usual bondage? Learn fun and easy bondage basics to spice things up!
Cuffing and Collaring Rituals
Variations on Basic Bondage Ties
Easy Cock and Ball Bondage
Use “body percussion” with the help of floggers, paddles, crops, and (most importantly) your hands to delight and stimulate your lover.
How To Use The Sensation Toys
Deep dive into the senses ~ sight, smell, taste, sound, and touch. Dozens of options for sensation play.
59 Ways To Use A Toothbrush
Electrical Play For Beginners
How To Use Advanced Toys (Double Evil Nipple Device, Neon Wand With Power Tripper, and more)
Remember, there is no “right” way to do Bondassage ~ just keep your heart open and your attention present and you’ll do fine!
- Keep it simple — keep your session to a few toys
- Prep, prep, prep — try everything you are going to do in advance
- Stay in your body, not in your head
- Play and explore — there is no Bondassage police 🙂
Sample Male Bondassage Session (Face Down)
Sample Male Bondassage Session (Face Up)
Sample Female Bondassage Session (Face Down)
Sample Female Bondassage Session (Face Up)
Learn how to provide nurturing aftercare that deepens the connection between the two of you.
90 Minute Private Coaching Call With The Creator of Bondassage, Jaeleen Bennis ~ Email to schedule HERE
You’re a genius. What you’ve done is incredible.
My wife Jenny was pretty skeptical at first. She was concerned about being restrained and being subjected to anything painful. So I’ve been introducing the various elements bit by bit. First just the vaginal massage techniques from your videos. Then the soft elements (bunny fur massage glove, satin pillow case, make up brush). Then added the ankle and wrist cuffs but without the ropes. Then the collar. Then restraining just her legs. Then the bunny flogger (so much fun). Finally, we put it all together this past weekend and I gave her a full 3 hour bondassage complete with all of the above plus a leather flogger from The Stockroom, a beaded chain flogger from Toolworks, and the leather paddle with bunny fur on one side from bunnyflogger.com. Believe me that I was not holding back and she was loving it. When we were done and I was feeding her some chocolate, she said, “Wow. That was amazing. I didn’t think I’d like it so much. I can’t believe that this is my life.” That was Friday night. On Sunday, we switched. Jenny again has been pretty skeptical, thinking that she wouldn’t be capable of playing the dominant role. But she “came through” (pun intended) and had fun with it. She found herself giggling while flogging me. My orgasm was so huge that it made me laugh. And then when she had me wrapped in a cozy blanket, it brought tears to my eyes. “I can’t believe that this is my life.”
I’m a neuroscientist so I understand quite a lot about sensation and perception, and in particular how alternating between different kinds of sensory stimulation can intensify the experience. You’ve figured all this out intuitively and perfected it.
I’d like to give you a donation. Do you take Venmo?