Some things tickle, some things prickle, and all things can potentially bring a sigh of pleasure. Once you’ve created a lovely sensual atmosphere, talked about safety, negotiated what you’re each comfortable with, and acclimated yourself with your tools, then you can start to play with some of the sensations these tools bring, using your skills and imagination! The things you do may prick and tickle, but the goal is always to induce signs of pleasure.
Sensation Play Ideas
There’s a lot to be said for the sensations your body receives once blindfolded. The following are some ideas on what to play with and then how to utilize some of them in scene to keep the flow …
Heat
Wax (candle, paraffin, not beeswax ~ it gets too hot!)
Hot Water (use an eyedropper)
Hot Breath
Warm Washcloth
The following are for external use only:
Cayenne Pepper
Ginger
Capsicum
Cinnamon Oil
Wasabi
Tiger Balm
Hand Warmers for Skiing
Cold
Ice
Ice Cups (freeze water in small Dixie cups)
Ice Cubes
Once again, external use only:
Polar Lotion/Icy Hot
Canned Air Spray
Menthol
Listerine or other mouth strips
Altoids
Pearls
Chain
Knife (blunt side only please!)
Soft
Fur, real or fake (mitts, bits from coats: rabbit, mink)
Feathers
Satin
Silk Scarf
Paint Brushes
Makeup Brush
Silicone Basting Brushes
Artist’s Brushes
Cotton Swab
Flogger
Long Hair
Cornstarch (drop in “plops” on the skin)
Scratchy
Vampire Gloves (leather gloves covered in tiny spikes, available from fetish shops and sex toy retailers ~ be careful about drawing blood unless for single person use)
Wartenberg Wheel
Wool
Forks
Bottle caps
Metal Hair Brushes
Whisks
Toothpicks
Combs
Fingernails
Gravel
Brush (bath brushes, hair brushes, paint brushes)
Pipe cleaners
Loofah
Sponges
Dishwashing Pad
Bath Gloves
Sandpaper
Emery Board
Tingler (copper head massager)
Smooth
Leather
Suede
Chamois
Rubber Sheeting
Neoprene
Liquid Latex
Glass (you can find glass toys made for body use)
Pyrex
Plastic
Metal, especially stainless steel
Smooth Wood
Wax Paper
Pinchy
Clothespins
Clips
Clamps
Biting
Pinching
Plastic Vise Grips
Alligator Clips
Pickle Tongs
Practice Drumsticks (good for rhythmic body percussion)
Suction
Snakebite Kit
Sucking
Cupping Sets (made for sensual use or acupuncture)
Vibration
Disposable Electric Toothbrushes
Vibrators:
Bullets
Rabbit
Hitachi Magic Wand: with attachments
Percussion
Canes
Paddles
Hands ~ fists, open palms
Flogging
Rubber Bands (stingy)
Studded Paddle
Crops
Wooden Spoons
Practice or Regular drumsticks
Smell
Essential Oils
Flowers
Pine Branches
Citrus (brightening)
Vanilla (sensual)
Cinnamon (exotic awakening)
Basil (clearing)
Patchouli (sensual)
Taste
Needless to say, external use only:
Popsicles
Chocolate
Honey
Jam
Whipped Cream
Breath Mints
Flavored Lip Gloss
Excerpted from ‘Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers’. Available HERE